This web site has been set up with the hope of enlightening society and the judicial of the many abuses fathers and husbands have to deal with. It is a sad commentary to our society that spousal abuse occurs at all. Women are in the spotlight most often as the abused spouse; men being the abuser. By some estimates however, abused men are actually the majority.

This is certainly the case with the judicial system. The woman is almost always awarded custody regardless of the circumstances. If a woman cries abuse, the abused man is most certainly hauled off to jail. Who is going to believe that he is the abused spouse?

Where is a father to go if women continually stomp on his rights as a father? It is a waste of his resources (money) to sue for contempt if he isn’t getting proper visitation for example. It’s the child that should be receiving that money; the courts don’t see it that way, sad though it is.

We cannot hope to change things in the near future, but we can and will turn some heads. Hopefully some of those heads will heed our message. Here are some of the ways this web site hopes to help.

We intend to author a book documenting the abuse men receive from their wives, estranged wives, society, and the judicial system. The collaborative effort is going to occur right here on these web pages. Stories will be collected here, verified for accuracy when possible, and edited for eventual publication.

A resource of links to other online help for men will be started; the hope is to organize many of the places that are available into one site. We can use help from you in supplying us with relevant links.

A forum is available to post information, comments, and stories; ask for help, give help, and so on. We are hoping some of our professionals out there will offer help through the forums or even their own stories. Doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, lawyers, judges, lawmakers, and others are all in a position to help if they want to; we encourage them to do so. We could use some input by E-mail on what forum topics you would like to see started.

If you are interested in collaborating on the book please E-mail book. We will want an idea from you about what you wish to input with some example writings. We are only going to publish well-written and credible stories that will be worth publishing in book form. We hope there will be many authors and all will get credit.

Please keep in mind we are just starting here and there will be some bugs and such with this site that will need to be ironed out. Please be patient while the site evolves. If you have any suggestions for forum topics or anything else to get things started please E-mail the administration staff at the E-mail address below.

If anybody has the imagination or the wherewithal to create a logo for us please feel free to submit one. Make it about the size to fit where the title bar is. No guarantees we will use it, but we will certainly give any submissions consideration.

Well, let’s get started writing your stories.

Administration and Editorial Staff